佛曰：爱情                                                                                                                                                                                                        石头问：我究竟该找个我爱的人做我的妻子呢？还是该找个爱我的人做我的妻子呢？                                                                                                                                                                                  佛笑了笑：这个问题的答案其实就在你自己的心底。这些年来，能让你爱得死去活来，能让你感觉到生活充实，能让你挺起胸不断往前走                                                                                                                                ，是你爱的人呢？还是爱你的人呢？                                                                                                                                                                                                                                石头也笑了：可是朋友们都劝我找个爱我的女孩做我的妻子。                                                                                                                                                                                                      佛说：真要是那样的话，你的一生就将从此注定碌碌无为！你是习惯在追逐爱情的过程中不断趋完善自己的。你不再去追逐一个自己爱的                                                                                                                                人，你自我完善的脚步也就停下来了。                                                                                                                                                                                                                              石头抢过了佛的话：那我要是追到了我爱的人呢？会不会就。。。。。。                                                                                                                                                                                            佛说：因为她是你最爱的人，让她活的幸福和快乐被你视作是一生中最大的幸福，所以，你还会为了她生活的更加幸福和快乐而不断努力                                                                                                                                。幸福和快乐是没有极限的，所以你的努力也将没有极限，绝不会停止。                                                                                                                                                                                                石头说：那我活的岂不是很辛苦？                                                                                                                                                                                                                              佛说：这么多年了，你觉得自己辛苦吗？                                                                                                                                                                                                                        石头摇了摇头，又笑了。                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      石头问：既然这样，那么是不是要善待一下爱我的人呢？                                                                                                                                                                                                          佛摇了摇头，说：你需要你爱的人善待你吗？                                                                                                                                                                                                                    石头苦笑了一下：我想我不需要。                                                                                                                                                                                                                              佛说：说说你的原因。                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        石头说：我对爱情的要求较为苛刻，那就是我不需要这里面夹杂着同情夹杂着怜悯，我希望她是发自内心爱我的，同情怜悯宽容和忍让虽                                                                                                                                然也是一种爱，尽管也会给人带来某种意义上的幸福，但它却是我深恶痛绝的，如果他对我的爱夹杂着这些,那么我宁愿她不要理睬我，